Behavioural Change Toolkit · Advising Senior Leaders

Sponsor Briefing Pack

Turns your three asks into the one-page brief, a timed run sheet and a six-slide deck — and tells you when an ask is too vague for a sponsor to say yes to.

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Active, visible sponsorship is repeatedly identified as the single largest contributor to change success. Not steering group attendance — visible, specific, sustained action.

Most sponsors want to do this and don’t know what it means in practice. Nobody has ever told them. Your job is to make the ask concrete enough to say yes to.


The 45-minute one-to-one

Do this before design starts. One-to-one, not in a governance meeting. This is the highest-leverage hour in the whole programme.

1 · Their words (5 min)

“Before I say anything — in your own words, why are we doing this?”

Listen precisely. If they can’t do it fluently, that’s your first finding, and it’s a big one. Everything downstream inherits this sentence.

2 · The evidence (10 min)

Barrier data and three verbatim quotes. Then the reframe:

“Almost none of this is people being resistant. Most of it is things the organisation has done to itself. Some of those only you can fix.”

⭐ This reframe is the most important thing you’ll say. It moves the sponsor from frustration with people to action on systems, and it puts the fix inside their control — which is where they’re comfortable operating.

3 · The ask (15 min)

Three specific things. Not “visible support.”

The three asks

1 · Remove a barrier only you can remove _______________ (Legacy switch-off date, a conflicting target, a resource, a peer who won’t align, permission to take something off people’s plates)

2 · Do something visible, repeatedly _______________ (Use it themselves; ask about it in every skip-level; run their own meeting off the new system; refuse the old report format)

3 · Say something specific, in their own words _______________ (The agreed sentence, plus the honest cost, plus what they’ll do)

4 · The dip (10 min)

Draw the curve from Bridges Transition Model.

“Performance will dip for around six weeks. That’s normal, not failure. When it dips, people will come to you saying it isn’t working. What will you do? And what will you say to your peers?”

Get the answer in the room, before it happens. A sponsor who has pre-committed to holding their nerve behaves completely differently when the dip arrives than one meeting it cold.

5 · The deal (5 min)

“What I’ll do: bring you a one-pager every fortnight with what’s moving, what I need from you, and what I’m worried about. I won’t bring you problems without options.

What I need from you: a decision within a week when I ask for one, and to tell me straight when you disagree rather than going quiet.”


What sponsors actually own

Sponsor owns Not the sponsor’s job
Being visible and repeatedly present Attending every steering group
Removing organisational blockers Approving the comms plan
Aligning their own peers ⭐ Reviewing training material
Deciding, quickly Running the programme
Holding the line during the dip Being the cheerleader

Peer alignment is the most underestimated. A sponsor who is aligned but whose peers aren’t leaves managers with contradictory instructions — and managers resolve contradictions by doing nothing. Ask directly: “Which of your peers isn’t with us, and how do we fix that?”


Fortnightly, one page

Keep the same format every time — it trains them to read it in ninety seconds.

1. What moved            (metric, trend)
2. What I need from you  (a decision, with a date)
3. What I'm worried about (one thing, honestly)

⚠️ Always include an ask. A report with no ask trains the sponsor that you don’t need them, and then you can’t get them back when you do.

⚠️ Always include a worry. A sponsor who only hears good news stops believing you, and the first bad news lands as a shock rather than a development.


Diagnosing a disengaged sponsor

Sponsors go quiet for reasons, and the fix differs:

Cause Sign Fix
Doesn’t understand the ask Generic support, no action Make it three specific things with dates
Doesn’t believe in it Delegates everything, avoids specifics Have the honest conversation — Challenging Upward — Scripts
Too busy / competing priorities Cancels, sends deputies Reduce the ask to one thing that matters most
Blocked by their own peers Vague on cross-functional issues Help them with the peer conversation
Was never really the sponsor Can’t make decisions when asked Find who actually decides. This is common and rarely acknowledged.

The nominal sponsor

Sometimes the named sponsor has neither the authority nor the appetite, and the real decisions sit elsewhere. Test it early with a small decision request. If it doesn’t come back inside a week, you have a sponsorship problem, not a delivery problem — and the sooner you name it, the more of your credibility survives.


The one-page sponsor brief

Give them this at the first meeting.

[Change name] — What I need from you

In one sentence: ___________

Your three commitments:

  1. ___________ by ___
  2. ___________ ongoing
  3. ___________ by ___

Decisions I’ll need from you: ___________

What will happen that will worry you: performance will dip for around six weeks from ___. That’s expected.

What I’ll give you: a one-page update every fortnight — what moved, what I need, what worries me.


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Last updated: 11 August 2026